{"id":6610,"date":"2014-01-01T10:00:31","date_gmt":"2014-01-01T10:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/?p=6610"},"modified":"2015-10-20T20:57:29","modified_gmt":"2015-10-20T19:57:29","slug":"etiquette-modern-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/etiquette-modern-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"Etiquette For The Modern Wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6611\" title=\"Etiquette For The Modern Wedding\" src=\"https:\/\/weddingdates-wp-uk.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/2013\/12\/Alfonso_Prince_of_Asturias_w_Eldmira_Sampedro.jpg\" alt=\"Etiquette For The Modern Wedding\" width=\"564\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Alfonso_Prince_of_Asturias_w_Eldmira_Sampedro.jpg 564w, https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Alfonso_Prince_of_Asturias_w_Eldmira_Sampedro-300x279.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 564px) 100vw, 564px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>From what to spend on a gift to rules of hashtagging someone\u2019s special day, it\u2019s hard to know what\u2019s important at a modern wedding. Here are a few tips on getting it right\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>Engagement Party Gifts<\/h2>\n<p>Ahh\u2026 To gift or not to gift. It really depends on a few things. Local customs, how close you are to the couple, if you\u2019re a family member. When in doubt, ask the host. And if you decide to bring a gift either way, it\u2019s always a good idea to hold back and give it in private. The gift doesn\u2019t need to be over the top; a bottle of champagne for their first anniversary or an ornament for their next Christmas tree make for great gifts.<\/p>\n<h2>Who Walks You Down The Aisle<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re not especially close with your father, anyone can walk you down the aisle. Whatever makes you comfortable as a bride is perfectly acceptable. One touching story we\u2019ve heard was about a bride whose father had passed before the wedding. The couple decided to walk down the aisle with each other to face their marriage together. If your father will be attending the day but won\u2019t be walking you down the aisle, consider giving him another role to play.<\/p>\n<h2>Inviting Someone Who Can\u2019t Attend<\/h2>\n<p>If you know someone won\u2019t be able to attend the wedding, do you still need to invite them? Not an easy one, as there are no hard and fast rules. If you\u2019re sure that someone can\u2019t attend than there is no need to fret over sending them an invite. But, you could send them an invite with a note that says \u201cif your plans change, we would love to see you there.\u201d Bear in mind that a lot of people take an invitation as an obligation to send a gift too.<\/p>\n<p>Image via <a title=\"wiki commmons\" href=\"http:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File:Alfonso_Prince_of_Asturias_w_Eldmira_Sampedro.jpg\" data-wpel-link=\"external\" rel=\"nofollow\">Wiki Commons<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"From what to spend on a gift to rules of hashtagging someone\u2019s special day, it\u2019s hard to know what\u2019s important at a modern wedding. Here are a few tips on getting it right\u2026 Engagement Party Gifts Ahh\u2026 To gift or not to gift. It really depends on a few things. Local customs, how close you are to the couple, if you\u2019re a family member. When in doubt, ask the host. And if you decide to bring a gift either way, [&hellip;]","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":6611,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6610"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6610"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6610\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6614,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6610\/revisions\/6614"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6610"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6610"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6610"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}