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There\u2019s a lot involved with planning a wedding. Unless you\u2019re taking part in that well known television show, it\u2019s quite likely that the bride-to-be will take the lead when it comes to everything organisational. There is one main factor however that does not fall under her list of responsibilities \u2013 choosing the best man. Often it\u2019ll be an easy decision for the groom; usually a brother or best friend will do the honour. What they tend to forget however, is that there\u2019s a lot more to being a best man than might meet the eye. It\u2019s not only his job to plan a great stag night; he\u2019ll also be in charge of looking after the all-important wedding rings, getting the groom to the ceremony on time, and of course, making a speech during the wedding breakfast. It\u2019s the latter of these jobs that tends to faze the majority of best men. So to help you, I\u2019ve come up with a list of do\u2019s and don\u2019ts when it comes to making the best man\u2019s speech \u2013 just don\u2019t tell the groom!<\/p>\n
There\u2019s nothing worse than a long, drawn out speech. Remember that you\u2019re not the only one who has to give one \u2013 both the bride\u2019s father and the groom himself will also have to make a speech. When you\u2019re practising your speech in front of the mirror, time yourself. If you\u2019ve been speaking for up to 10 minutes by the time you\u2019ve finished then you should consider cutting it down a little. Aim to talk for around five minutes, and don\u2019t waffle.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m sure you can think of loads of hilarious anecdotes \u2013 but stop for a moment and consider whether the wedding day is really the best time to bring them up. Making a best man\u2019s speech is less about embarrassing him with toe-curling tales of his antics and more about regaling everybody of that one time when. And if you\u2019re struggling to come up with anything funny, leave this part out altogether \u2013 you don\u2019t want forced laughter.<\/p>\n
There are a few staples which every best man should address in his speech. Be sure to mention (with sincerity) how beautiful the bride looks and what a lovely couple the two of them make. Thank your fellow groomsmen and the bridesmaids and propose a toast at the end to make it more official.<\/p>\n
With emotions running high at weddings, you may well feel a tear start to well up in your eye. However, always remember that your job is to make sure the day runs smoothly, so any crying on your part will probably be considered a little too sentimental.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s fine to mention briefly that the bride looks beautiful, but try to avoid talking too much about how good she looks and focus on the pair of them as a couple. Similarly, remember that it is their day, so while your speech is an important part of it, it\u2019s not the be all and end all.<\/p>\n
Tempted to load up on the Dutch courage? It is not exactly uncommon for us to want a small one to soften the nerves, but watch your step! Slurring your words and hiccupping through the speech will not make a great impression. Don\u2019t forget that consuming too much alcohol could make you say something you regret later on.<\/p>\n
Follow these tips and your best man\u2019s speech will be a success!<\/p>\n