From what to spend on a gift to rules of hashtagging someone’s special day, it’s hard to know what’s important at a modern wedding. Here are a few tips on getting it right…
Engagement Party Gifts
Ahh… To gift or not to gift. It really depends on a few things. Local customs, how close you are to the couple, if you’re a family member. When in doubt, ask the host. And if you decide to bring a gift either way, it’s always a good idea to hold back and give it in private. The gift doesn’t need to be over the top; a bottle of champagne for their first anniversary or an ornament for their next Christmas tree make for great gifts.
Who Walks You Down The Aisle
If you’re not especially close with your father, anyone can walk you down the aisle. Whatever makes you comfortable as a bride is perfectly acceptable. One touching story we’ve heard was about a bride whose father had passed before the wedding. The couple decided to walk down the aisle with each other to face their marriage together. If your father will be attending the day but won’t be walking you down the aisle, consider giving him another role to play.
Inviting Someone Who Can’t Attend
If you know someone won’t be able to attend the wedding, do you still need to invite them? Not an easy one, as there are no hard and fast rules. If you’re sure that someone can’t attend than there is no need to fret over sending them an invite. But, you could send them an invite with a note that says “if your plans change, we would love to see you there.” Bear in mind that a lot of people take an invitation as an obligation to send a gift too.
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